Something happened that changed the ground under you and there was no manual for it.
But something has happened, or is happening right now, that composure alone can't get you through, and there's no version of waiting it out that makes it easier.
Explore therapy for executives & leaders after an unexplained health scare
Maybe you're back at work. Maybe you're on leave. Maybe the tests didn't give you the answer you wanted. But you're expected to lead again while part of you is still wondering, What if it happens again?
Your body stopped you. Your responsibilities didn't.
Work After an Unexplained Health Scare
Explore therapy for career exits, NDAs & whistleblowers
Everyone else has their version of what happened. You have yours and for legal, professional, or personal reasons, you can't simply correct the record.
You left. You reported it. You signed something. And now you're carrying a story you can't tell.
A Silenced Exit
Explore therapy for sudden wealth, inheritance, & business succession
Now everyone has an opinion about what you should do with something you never expected to have and you're trying to make decisions while grieving, managing expectations, and figuring out who you are now.
You inherited the money., the business, the responsibility, and maybe the family conflict, too.
The Money & Responsibility You Didn't Ask For
The Areas I Work In:
The people I work with are usually the ones everyone else counts on which means they rarely get asked how they're actually doing.
Here, that's the whole point.
My approach is Internal Family Systems (IFS), a model built on a simple truth: you are not one uniform feeling about whatever brought you here. Part of you may be holding it together. Part of you may be exhausted by that. Part of you may be furious this ever landed on your shoulders at all. None of those parts are wrong, and none of them need to be silenced for you to move forward.
I won't rush you toward a decision you're not ready to make, and I won't pretend something is simple just because, from the outside, your life looks like it's going fine. We move at the pace your system can actually integrate, not the pace everyone around you assumes you should be moving at.
The Way I Work:
"It's hard to find a therapist who's a good fit, but Kiara's her authenticity and warm energy helps clients feel at ease right away. Kiara is an excellent therapist and practitioner of Internal Family Systems (IFS). She does great work helping high achieving men and women unmask and unwind so that they can actually enjoy their success. I have referred clients to Kiara and will continue to do so!"
How I've Helped My Clients
Something unusually consequential happened in your life. You're accustomed to handling difficult things. This one is different. I provide intensive therapy for people who need somewhere to process what happened, make sense of what comes next, and move forward without losing themselves.
I am a Certified IFS Therapist, LCPC in Maryland, LPC in Virginia, National Certified Counselor, and a Board Approved Supervisor in Maryland with 15+ years of clinical counseling experience. I work with a small number of intensive clients at a time.
Kiara Hartwell Opara
LCPC · LPC · NCC
Meet The Therapist
Begin with a conversation.
If something on this site felt familiar, you don't need to have everything figured out before reaching out.
You don't need the perfect explanation of what's wrong.
You can simply tell me what has been happening, what you've tried, and what you're hoping will be different.
You just need to stop carrying this alone.
Start Your Journey.
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The Pillar: The one everyone leans on
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The Achiever: Driven, capable, & quietly exhausted
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The Diplomat: Keeping the peace at the cost of yourself
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The Sentinel: Always watching & always on guard
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The Architect: Building control to feel safe
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