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    For highly self-aware adults who keep losing themselves in people-pleasing, over-functioning, and perfectionism,
    even though they know exactly why.

    You understand exactly what you're doing.
    You just can't seem to stop.

    Certified IFS Therapist in Virginia Beach and Maryland

    IFS Intensives in Maryland & Virginia

    The Work

    Imagine finally being able to stay connected to yourself in the moments you usually disappear.

    Into the people pleasing, the perfectionism, the overthinking, the self-doubt.

    The moment someone needs something and you immediately abandon what you were feeling to take care of it.

    That disconnection isn't a character flaw; it's a pattern that developed for good reason and has now been running the show ever since.

    An IFS intensive is where that pattern finally meets something stronger than itself.

    〰 You've been in therapy and are ready to go deeper
    〰 You understand your patterns but still can't stop them in the moment
    〰 You keep losing yourself in people-pleasing, over-functioning, or perfectionism
    〰 You're navigating a transition or turning point you're ready to address directly
    〰 You want concentrated, immersive work, not the slow drip of weekly sessions
    〰 You're a clinician or coach who wants to experience IFS from the inside
    〰 You're ready to invest in real movement rather than wait for it

    You are highly self-aware. You've done work on yourself:
    therapy, coaching, personal development, all of it.
    You can name your patterns. You understand where they came from.
    And you are exhausted by the fact that you still can't stop them.

    You over-function when you're stressed. You say yes when you mean no.
    You disappear into other people's needs and find yourself
    somewhere far from yourself. You think more than you feel.
    You perfect more than you rest.

    Weekly therapy moves too slowly for where you are.
    You're ready for something concentrated, immersive, and real.

    This is for the person who is done
    waiting for weekly therapy to get there.

    Who This Is For

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    I built this intensive container because I know what it feels like
    to understand your patterns completely and still find yourself doing the same thing again.

    IFS (Internal Family Systems) is the modality that changed that for me and for the clients I work with. Not because it teaches you something new. It's because it goes somewhere insight alone can't reach.

    I am a Certified IFS Therapist, LCPC in Maryland, LPC in Virginia, National Certified Counselor, and a Board Approved Supervisor in Maryland with 15+ years of clinical counseling experience. I work with a small number of intensive clients at a time.

    My approach is rooted in IFS, culturally conscious, and deeply personal. I don't believe therapy is about fixing you. I believe it's about coming home to yourself and building a life that actually feels worth living, not just worth showing.

    Kiara Hartwell Opara
    LCPC · LPC · NCC

    Meet The Therapist

    How To Begin

    After your pre-intensive call we'll schedule your intensive dates, sign your contract, and process payment. Your workbook arrives 5-7 days before we begin.

    03.
    Begin your intensive

    Once I receive your email, we will schedule a date for your pre-intensive call ($325) and I'll send intake paperwork. This is where we begin: taking a thorough history, understanding your parts landscape, and determining which intensive format is right for you.

    02.
    Book your pre-intensive call

    Send an email to kiara@kjhartwell.com to express your interest. Let me know a little about what brings you here and what you're hoping to work on.

    01.
    Reach out

    Starting is simpler than you think

    Investment Opportunities

    1 day · 6 hours · $3,600
    2 days · 12 hours · $7,200
    3 days · 18 hours · $10,800
    Available Monday, Thursday, Friday, or weekends

    FULL DAY

    1 half-day · 3 hours · $1,800
    2 half-days · 6 hours · $3,600
    Available Monday, Thursday, or Friday

    HALF-DAY

    Choose your container

    All pricing includes post-intensive call.

    90 minute pre-intensive call is $325 and credited toward your intensive selection.

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    For the clinicians, counselors, social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists, and caregivers who spend their lives holding space for others and deserve a space that holds them.

    Therapy For Therapists & Helping Professionals

    For the mind that won't quiet down. We go beneath the anxiety to understand the parts driving it and build a relationship with yourself that doesn't require constant vigilance.

    Therapy For Anxiety & Perfectionism

    For the ones who look successful on the outside and feel empty on the inside. We work with the patterns of over-functioning, perfectionism, and the exhaustion of always being the capable one.

    Therapy For Adults Ready To Stop Losing Themselves

    Where We Go Together

    This work looks different depending on what you're carrying, but here's where we go most often:

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